Before trying plastic surgery for breast enlargement, you should consider what you wish to accomplish. There are ways you may accomplish what you wish without the breast-enlargement cost and pain. You may not have to do anything to your breasts if you symbolize the feminine to men in other ways.
What are you trying to accomplish? If you need big breasts for professional reasons -- if you are an actress for example -- then you already know if you need big breasts. If you are in sports, you already know you need small breasts. In neither case would you be reading this article. It is likely you are contemplating breast enlargement to be more attractive to men.
Do guys like big breasts? A great many seem to, but it's a cultural and individual matter, and many men don't care much one way or the other.
Currently in North America, many, Volkswagen squareback if not most men are imprinted on breasts. In history, though, there have been periods when breasts have been considered erotic, and periods when they have not. Whenever and wherever breast-feeding is common, breasts are not eroticised. Wouldn't it be your rotten luck if La Leche were suddenly successful just after your surgery?
Large breasts are in at the moment. If you understand why men would fixate on them, you are in a better position to plan your response to the situation.
Male sexuality is not personal. Heterosexual men are attracted to The Feminine. Men respond to what symbolizes Woman to them. A big component of male sexuality is visual, and boys entering puberty imprint on visual cues. Breasts are a good symbol for the feminine, and our society gives boys every encouragement to imprint on them.
Networks of neurons in our brains classify what we see. The more conspicuous the features they are programmed for, the stronger their response. Big breasts get a stronger response than small ones.
The biggest mistake you can make is to use this as the sole reason to have your breasts enlarged. That would be to rely on a gimmick to attract men, and the gimmick doesn't do enough.
I knew a woman who had plastic surgery -- in her case, a nose job -- in hopes of attracting men. She was so needy that she could only absorb attention, not give any back. No one could get close to her emotionally. The surgery was painful, expensive, and futile.
Consider it to be an advertising problem to attract a man. One way to design an advertisement is given by the acronym AIDA: Attention, Interest, Desire, Action. The desire and action come from making a compelling offer.
Breasts are at most the title of the sales letter. The compelling offer is YOU.
So what should you do to be a good advertisement for yourself? Whatever you do, it had better be true to yourself -- men commit to women because they want them for themselves, and if you fake who you are in order to attract a man, you are preparing the way for unhappiness later. Unlike fairy tales, the story doesn't end at marriage.
However, there are aspects of your nature you can develop and accentuate that will be almost irresistible to the kind of man you might want.
Remember, men are programmed to respond to The Feminine. If you act with feminine grace, if you are at home in yourself, especially if you are utterly comfortable with your sexuality, men will instantly detect that and be attracted to you from across the room. An aspect of this is to understand men and appreciate them for what they are. Feminine grace is powerful.
With feminine grace, you don't even need the headline of big breasts to get men's attention. Grace itself arouses their interest and builds their desire. And you can practice your feminine grace. It is quick and a lot less pain and expense than breast enlargement surgery.
For more information on why men love breasts, and other aspects of understanding men, visit the web site http://tipswhatmenwant.com/ created by Thomas Christopher, a Colorado Front Range public speaker on relationships.
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